

Remembering Ken Bond
Ken Bond was a husband, father, grandfather and even a great-grandfather. He was also a friend to many, and mentor to the lucky. He lived eighty-nine adventurous years and saw much of this world before he left us.
Ken was a prolific writer and in this section, we share some of his own recollections of his early years.
My Early Years
Kindergarten School
My education all started when my mother had a fourth child, and was looking for a way to lighten up her maternal workload a bit. Through a nearby neighbor, she learned about a store-front pre-school on Royce Avenue being operated by Mrs. Smith, a kindly, old Baptist spinster. From my mother’s standpoint, one of the best things about ‘Mrs. Smith’s Kindergarten School’ was that it was totally free, which was well-within our growing family’s budget. I fondly recall it being one of the most pleasant experiences in my introduction to the educational process.
Opening the entry door of the school each summer weekday at nine, and leaving the public sidewalk behind, about ten five-year-old’s entered into the long, narrow space, measuring about 20 feet in width by 80 feet in depth. Light fixtures, adorned with white glass globes, hung down from a thoroughly cracked plaster ceiling. Floors were fashioned with dark stained hardwood, and housed two chairs and an upholstered sofa of indeterminate age, as well as two round, well-scratched oak tables. Most furniture items had most likely been sourced from a nearby furniture clearance center.
The most interesting item, however, was an ancient, upright piano occupying the left-rear corner of the interior space, waiting to be played by the strange-looking man sitting on the bench in front of it… the rake-thin, heavily whiskered, Mr. Watkins, Esq.
The Daily Routine
Our day typically started with a prayer, led by our ‘teacher’, Mrs. Smith. We never learned whether she had been trained as a teacher. However, the mere fact that she was offering her services free of charge to give us less fortunate kids a starting education was all that was needed to make her ‘school’ a neighborhood success.
Mrs. Smith appeared to be a pretty ancient woman, because, not only was she wearing glasses over a bulbous nose, but she sported lots of gray and white hair in page boy style. Severely wrinkled skin covered her face and thin arms. She moved about with a noticeable limp in her right leg.
But to be totally honest and clear about the woman, her voice and delivery were those of sweet tenderness and caring, and she always referred to us as her ‘children’ whenever she addressed us. I fondly remember her as a very kind and gentle person.
One of the next things she did was lead us in singing a rendition of ‘God Save the King’. Canada was still part of the British Empire in the late 1930’s. The Patriotic ‘O Canada’ would eventually make a presence…but much later on.
Our voices were aided and abetted by the upright piano being enthusiastically played by Mr. Watkins. We subsequently learned that the gentleman was a recovering alcoholic of some 55 years of age. When he spoke, his voice was similar to a croaking frog. Mrs. Smith usually initiated polite requests to him in her kindly, wavering voice: “Mr. Watkins, would you accompany us in playing your rendition of ‘God Save Our Gracious King’?” After that he would commence doing so, singing along with us with a lusty gravelly voice.
Now that the preliminaries were over with, we engaged in our activities for the day. Working with great enthusiasm on the two round oak tables, we created artistic treasures on sketch paper using Crayola wax crayons…made exotic figurines with multi-colored plasticene dough, or played a variety of children’s board games.
About an hour into our morning, we were given a small ‘treat’ of apple slices, or some similar delicacy. Shortly after that, we put our heads down to enjoy a short ten-minute ‘nap’. As eleven o’clock approached, it was time to go home, leaving Mrs. Smith’s kindergarten behind, until our next visit.
Elementary School
The following year, 1940, when I turned six years of age, I was enrolled into first grade at St. Rita’s ‘Separate’ elementary school. Wondering why it was called separate, I learned it was called separate because it was an alternative school to Perth Avenue’s ‘public’ elementary school where I had been expected to join.
Our property taxes prepaid for us to attend Perth Avenue public school, at no charge. However, my parents had wanted their children to attend St. Rita’s to get religious training by Catholic lay teachers and nuns, so they had to pay extra for me to attend St. Rita’s, since my parents wanted me Both schools were about the same walking distance from our home.
St. Rita’s Elementary was a two-story brick building two blocks north of our home. It was very close to a set of fenced Canadian Pacific Railway freight tracks which proved hazardous over the years. A few kids who tried to scurry under stationary freights trains, trying to take a short-cut to our school, got themselves killed when the train started moving unexpectedly.
Right next to our school and these tracks was a Cadmium Plating factory, belching out noxious fumes during most school days. Fortunately, our prevailing north-west winds blew these unhealthy fumes onto the Canadian Pacific’s freight track right-of-way.
However, there were definitely other saving graces for the school’s location. It had a large chain-link fenced schoolyard bordered by the street and a dirt lane at the rear, and it was located right across from the City’s Carlton Park, a large grassy chestnut tree-covered expanse offering two swing-sets, a large sandbox, a baseball diamond and touch- football open spaces for us boys to enjoy.
As an aside, I still have a sizable crease on the top of my head, caused by a youngster called Peter Calsaverra. He was throwing rocks into a chestnut tree trying to bring down loose chestnuts. Since I was doing the same thing but from the opposite side of this same tree, one of his missiles went through the tree’s branches and landed on my head. After falling down unconscious, someone rescued me and carried me over to St. Rita’s school to get first aid. As I came-to, a habit-covered nun was in the course of pinching my scalp surface together, causing it to form into its currently dimpled depression.
Second WW Begins
It was September 1940, and Canada entered the Second World War as an ally of England. St. Rita’s had erected a large portable building outside the school’s main brick structure to house burgeoning population.
This was where our first-grade school room was located. I remember it very well...there was a pot-bellied wood and coal burning stove located on top of a masonry pedestal at the rear of the classroom. It had to be fed on a non-stop basis, since it got very cold during that 1940-41 Winter in the portable’s draughty, un-insulated space.
Among our early education highlights, we learned the alphabet, and how to print the characters with a big fat, black lead pencil. Memorably, it was the first time I’d ever received a valentine, learning who my admirers would turn out to be during future grades.
At recess, our class was turned-out to play in the school yard, just outside our portable building. Since there was no plumbing installed in our portable, we usually had to visit the main structure’s toilets when necessary.
Let The Games Begin
Boys had a variety of games to play, usually out in the school yard. Somewhat in order of popularity, these included ‘Marbles or Alleys’, ‘Cards’ or ‘Peggie Sticks’.
With Alleys, or Marbles, each player anted-up an equal number of marbles, placing them in a circle drawn by a stick in damp soil. With each player standing about 10-15 feet distant from the circle, they each lobbed a ball-bearing ‘shooter’ toward the circle, trying to see how close each could get to the center of the circle containing the marbles. The closest player was then given an opportunity to knock out as many marbles as he could from the circle. If a shot was missed, the next opposing player got a chance to try his luck at doing the same. The game was repeated until all the marbles were eventually removed from the circle.
Another popular game was played using gum Cards that came packaged with baseball or aviation cards. These were typically 2x3 inch cards containing a picture of a famous baseball player or a WWII bomber or fighter airplane. Competitors kept their cards tied up with an elastic band until ready for use. When challenged to a game, two players would agree on the number of cards to be played, and then the first player would ‘flip’ that number down to the ground. The second player then tried to ‘match’ the distribution of cards landing as a head or tail. Any mismatches went to the first player as his reward for winning the game.
Peggie Sticks was in reality a baseball simulation game. It was the most intricate of games we played and also required the most preparation. Making a set of Peggie Sticks started with finding an old broom handle, and cutting it into four pieces: a ‘Bat’ about one foot long, and three ‘Peggie’s’, each about four inches in length. Then, digging a groove or furrow in damp soil about two inches in depth, each of the three Peggie’s was placed in the groove with one of its ends pointing up in the air.
Using the foot-long Bat, the first Peggy was struck, twirling it up into the air. While in flight, the batter attempted to re-strike it, sending it out into the field, permitting it to be caught ‘on the fly’ by a ‘fielder’ vigilantly waiting out there to catch it. The remaining two Peggie’s were put into play similarly. Several other fielders could play against one batter during each game.
My Exciting Teenage Years
Early Times
Our Irish Catholic family eventually saw six males and one female born during the years 1934 to 1948. My birth occurred in 1934; I was the first-born male to grace the family, my birthday being August 1, 1934.
From my earliest years, my mother stressed upon me the importance of my being a good example to my brothers and sister. No matter what they did to offend, I was ‘the usual suspect’ held to blame for their misdeeds, and receiving corporeal punishment. Now you might say: ‘Hey…that’s just not fair!’ But, that’s the way it was done, in our household, in those early times.
As a consequence of being so mistreated, I morphed into quite an independent individual, to avoid, as best I could, being associated with the misdeeds of my misbehaving siblings. I set up my own rules of action and behavior, independently deciding what was best for me, as an individual. All of this was accomplished by the time I reached the ripe old age of nine years.
Early Job Skills
In June,1944, I asked for and got my first job. I was to sell Toronto’s two daily newspapers on one of the four busiest corners of ‘The Junction’. The Junction was so named because it was the main intersection of two well-traveled arteries: Dundas and Keele Streets.
My boss operated an open-air kiosk selling newspapers, magazines and other literary gems just outside the United Cigar Store franchisee, on the busiest corner of the intersection. My first job was to sell newspapers, as an independent sub-contractor, for the kiosk operator on a corner across the street from his kiosk.
As homecoming workers stepped off northbound street railway cars between five and six (rush hour) each evening, my job was to keep hollering, Get your Star, Telegram paper, here!, as loudly and clearly as I could, during the full, busy rush hour. I wore a white cotton change apron, loaded with pennies, nickels, dimes and quarters, helping me make change for paper buyers with larger currencies; however, as it usually turned out, most of my repeat customers usually came to me with the exact change in their hands, after stepping down from their street railway car.
I sold 80-90 papers daily, and earned $0.02 for each sale, for an income of $1.60-1.80. My first work experience, in retrospect, did not turn out to be a very profitable venture. But it’s often said: You have to crawl, before you can walk. Nevertheless, I gained immeasurably in terms of job training and experience from this first job.
Keeping my eyes on the ball, I spotted another busy major intersection at the corner of Dundas and Bloor Streets, about a mile south of the Junction, where a blind man was selling newspapers, magazines and miscellaneous printed goods from a sheltered kiosk, just like my old boss at The Junction. However, since I saw that there was nobody selling papers on the same relative corner that I had worked at the Junction, I approached the blind man, touting that I had paper-selling experience at the Junction. I told him he was foregoing sales with no one working the corner across the street.
Agreeing with me, he said he’d pay me $0.025 for each paper I sold. This would represent a 25% increase over my previous paper yield. I sold papers for the blind man for almost two years. And, we became very close friends. Believe it or not, his real, given legal name was Percy Friend.
My Unlucky Strike
Sometime during the Winter of 1945-1946, when I was about 5’-7” high and in 6th grade at St. Rita’s elementary school, I found I could earn some money by setting up bowling pins at the “Lucky Strike” bowling alley, within easy walking distance of our home. My father was against the idea, however, and had repeatedly told me in no uncertain terms that he didn’t want me being out late. But when you’re young, you often take your chances with these warnings, until something more serious happens.
The owners of the bowling alley wanted us to work Friday evenings, and all-day Saturday, which were their two busiest periods. From my standpoint, anything was better than being around the house all weekend and bored, with nothing to do, so I relished an opportunity to get some real-life experience and make a few dollars at the same time.
We were paid three cents a game, or line, as we called each line of ten frames on the score sheet. If three players competed during one game, we earned three lines, or nine cents for setting up their pins. Obviously, this manual method of setting up pins for bowlers, had been in practice long before the totally automated pin setters of today. On the other hand, this work did provide youngsters with an early opportunity to start honing their job experience portfolio.
The work could be very hazardous! Especially when muscle-bound teen-agers, showing-off for their girlfriends, threw balls down the alleys as rapidly as they could. It is worth noting that palm-held bowling balls used in Canada at the time measured about five inches in diameter and weighed about three pounds each. They were much smaller than the much larger enormous balls used in US alleys with finger holes used for gripping.
With virtually little effort, a strong-armed bowler could hurl a ball down the alley in excess of 50 miles per hour. One possible consequence of a ball hitting bowling pins at that speed was that an errant pin could take-off quite rapidly into the stratosphere and strike you hurtfully on the leg, or in the worst case, bonk you right in your face, or on your head while you sat perched as an unprotected target on a small, 6” by 14” wooden seat located between two adjacent alleys.
One Saturday, I commenced setting up games just after Noon. Since it wasn’t that busy, I was able to cover two alleys right next to each other at a rather leisurely pace during the afternoon’s games. Sometime around six o’clock, things started heating up, and I was asked (or told) to cover three contiguous alleys, simultaneously. Normally, this would stretch my abilities a little, but with slow bowlers I could usually handle three lanes with no difficulty.
Around nine o’clock, a few teen-aged bozos showed up, and things started to get a little out of hand. The balls came zinging down at supersonic speed, with airborne pins flying all over the place. By 10 o’clock, I had gotten hit on the leg three times. My only defense was to retaliate, “Hey guys, slow down your throws, willya’?” They didn’t, of course!
I finished out the day, just a little after midnight, with a total count of 103 lines, and some pretty severe bruises. This gave me a take home pay of about three dollars for l2 hours work. Not much by today’s standards, but a lot of money at the time for an eleven-year-old kid.
My ten-year-old younger brother, for some reason I can’t remember, was also there to walk back home with me. We headed out, joking and chatting as we normally did about kid stuff. It took us about 20 minutes to get to our house.
To get in the house, and past our normally locked front entry door, we had to work our finger into the front door mail-slot and pull out the house key hanging down over the inside of the mail slot opening.
Oh-oh, the key string isn’t there! I told him. Either somebody had forgotten to leave the key hanging there, or it had been removed intentionally.
I took on the job of finding a solution which certainly didn’t include knocking-on-the door, well after midnight, since Dad had repeatedly warned us about being out too late.
Considering our predicament momentarily, we then decided to gain entry through our cellar coal-bin access door which was located in the rear yard. We knew it was never locked. A secondary problem would have us unceremoniously landing in a bin full or empty of coal. That, we decided, wouldn’t be a large concern, so long as we were able to keep quiet.
Sure enough, poking lightly on the access door with my foot, I found it was unlocked. So far, the plan was working perfectly. Backing myself in, legs first, I quietly navigated through the access door, and found myself right in the coal pile. My younger brother followed; now we were both in the cellar.
‘That was slick,’ I thought. Now let me tell you, there’s no place darker in the world than our cellar, but we were fortunate knowing its layout, as we slowly, carefully made our way toward the steps that would take us up to the kitchen area of the house.
As I approached the bottom step, my left wrist was suddenly gripped by some unknown thing in that impenetrable darkness! My heart started beating wildly! Paralyzed, I was unable to think, or utter a sound.
My younger brother had proceeded blindly, but confidently, following me through the dark abyss, without realizing that he was about to be snatched away by those same monster claws. He whispered, “That was sure easy, eh?”
Now, as he felt that deathlike grip on his arm, as well, he uttered a muffled scream, followed by some long unforgotten words of profanity, before uttering out an almost silent...moan. We were both caught up in this monstrous trap!
Mind and body trembled for another five fearful seconds until, acclimatizing our eyes to the darkness, we realized that we had stumbled into the most familiar of traps...the arms of our father.
I guess Dad had decided to make our punishment more memorable by visiting this surprise on us, and vividly re-making his point that we were not supposed to be out so late…especially working in a bowling alley.
Over the years, remembering this haunting disciplinary exercise, I’ve often wondered how exciting it must have been for our Dad to have planned this adventure. Laying-in-wait, watching us crawl through the darkened window, and finally springing his fearsome trap.
My brother and I never forgot this episode. Dad, most likely having thoroughly enjoyed the experience, decided to never mention it again.
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